Guest Post by Rebecca J - Choosing the right sex toy

 

 Choosing the right sex toy

Sex toys have always had a slight stigma attached to them. However, thanks to El James’

50 Shades trilogy, designer sex toy sales are on the increase and it appears that this era of

conservatism is set to be a thing of the past.

With so many sex toys available on the market in all different shapes, sizes, colors and

functions, choosing the right sex toy may seem like a daunting ordeal, which it shouldn’t be!

Rather, it should be liberating and pleasurable (excuse the pun!) experience.

If you are new to this game then don’t fret, here are a few guidelines to help make choosing the right sex toy less overwhelming and more enjoyable.

For the modest, first-time user, I would suggest moving away from anything that is life-like

as this may be slightly off putting (which is definitely not the name of the game). Maybe start

with a clitoral vibrator. Unlike other vibrators, these are not insert-able and instead give exterior, clitoral stimulation. This is a great choice if the thought of inserting something inside you (other than a real penis) makes you feel anxious. The best I have come across on my own sexual endeavours is the LELO Nea, by LELO. LELO is a fantastic brand, producing remarkable, visually appealing sex toys.

 The LELO Nea is a really cute, compact, clitoral vibrator which fits in the palm of your hand and is easily and neatly hidden away in your draw - perfect for the Prude of first-time user. Another key feature is that the LELO Nea is rechargeable so you don’t need to worry about batteries. It also has a nice finish and is easy to clean too.

Alternatively, if you want something penetrative but are worried about the buzzing noises it

might make then do not worry. There are now sex toys galore which are designed with this

criteria in mind, featuring motors with little or no sound which save up all their energy to blow your mind it would seem. The LELO Elise would be my go-to vibrator if I wanted a silent but powerful vibrator. It’s quiet, discreet and 5 different modes. This means you can start off slowly and build up to strong, mind-blowing vibration. Another added bonus is that it is waterproof so you can use it in the bath or shower. 

If you want a really high-end designer sex toy then the JimmyJane LittleChroma, available to buy from Madame Liberty, oozes splendor and sophistication, having been featured in Vogue for it’s cool factor. 

In terms of power and price, it is definitely at the top end of the scales - in my view it is well worth the investment. It has an elegant design, shiny and smooth whilst the motor is located at its tip, which is where the vibrations are strongest. It also doesn’t require batteries, which is an additional perk and for something so understated, will definitely exceed your expectations.

Author Bio: Rebecca is a feisty, independent, 21st century female. She oozes sexual prowess and is always interested in finding new and exciting way to liven up her bedroom antics.




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Vibe Therapy Discreet Clitoral Vibrator

I'm a big clitoral stimulation fan, I mean, who isn't?  So when SweetSutra.com asked if I would like to review the Vibe Therapy Discreet for them, I found it hard not to say No!

The Vibe Therapy Discreet is a slim oval/egg shaped clitoral stimulator.  It is pink in color, with a silver rim halfway across the vibe, 2 buttons ( 1 x on/off & 1 x vibration controls) and a small red light that lights up when the product is switched on. There is also 2 white damask type Murial on either side of the operational buttons. 

The Discreet has 7 vibration functions; 3 vibrations - mild, medium and strong and 4 pulsations.

To operation this sex toy, simply press the on button once, then select which vibration you want to use by pressing the button above the on/off button.  To move through the vibrations/pulsations, then select the same button once for every speed/vibration.  To switch this stimulator off, press the on/off button once.

This discreet vibrator is made from ABS plastic (Acrylonitrile - Butadiene - Styrene), it is not made from Silicone, as a lot of websites seem to be portraying.  Reading the instruction manual, it does not state 'silicone' but clearly says ABS plastic.  Just to make sure, I double checked on the Vibe Therapy website, which confirmed this too.

It is also latex and phthalates free and non-porous. 

This sex toy is 100% waterproof, up to a depth of 1 meter, so you can have your bath time fun without worries.

The Vibe Therapy Discreet takes 2 x AAA batteries, which do not come with this product, when purchasing.  On the backside of this toy, you will find the battery's hiding place. On the bottom end of the toy is a little clip that you need to lift up (you will need nails for this part) and then slide the back cover off.  The 2 x AAA batteries easily slip inside the vibe, place the cover back on and you're ready to rock 'n' roll.

To clean is pretty easy, as this product is waterproof, you can submerge it in warm soapy water.  Ensure that you get into the curves of the silver border and the buttons.  You may want to use a cotton wool ear bud for this.  As there are some awkward crooks/crannies in this product, I would dry the vibrator off and then spritz it with a sex toy cleaner of your choice and then leave to dry. As a personal choice, I would recommend the Toy Joy Pump Action Toy Cleaner for £7.99. 

I found to use that this clitoral stimulator is pretty good.  It has the strength that hits the spot, for me.  It is easy to use and simply does the job.  The product description does say that this product is a discreet/quiet vibrator but I say it isn't 'that' discreet.  It does let off a buzzing sound that you can hear from across a room, although you wouldn't hear it through a door/wall.

The RRP is £29.99 GBP's, is it worth the price? I'm sat on the fence with this, if I'm honest.  I do like it as a clitoral stimulator but I think it would be better around the £20.00 GBP mark.  Why?  Simply because it is made from ABS and not a good quality silicone.  Now, if the section of this product was made from 100% medically graded silicone, I'd be happy to pay £30.00 for it but as it stands, you can buy a LELO for the same price.  I am not trying to sway people from purchasing the Vibe Therapy Discreet, no not at all, it is a good little toy but I am trying to make a comparison for the price, in the hopes that consumers can understand where I am coming from.

SweetSutra.com were a delight to deal with, their communications were prompt, informative and always helpful.  When my parcel arrived, it was packed well in a small brown box, which was addressed to me correctly and most importantly, it was discreet.  There was no sign on the outside of the parcel that this product came from an adult sex toy company.

All in all, I feel that the Vibe Therapy Discreet is a good stimulator, with the only fault I can find is the price but that is from my own personal opinion.  Would I suggest this product to a consumer, yes I would!

Thank you to Sweetsutra.com for allowing me to review this item on their behalf.

ADDED: Since the folks over at Sweetsutra.com have read my review, they have slashed the price of the Vibe Therapy Discreet to £22.99 GBP's, until the end of March 2013!  Now that IS an excuse, to bu this little gem!

RATING out of 4 lips

Vibe Therapy Discreet - Product Page

**WIN** 1 x Mia 2 by LELO

I'm a major LELO fan, if I could serve a LELO toy for dinner, I would!

So when @budda1114 published a new competition to win a LELO Mia 2, I had to let you all know about this.

It's pretty simple to enter, click on the below link and you will be taken to the competition entry.

http://travelnursetoybox.blogspot.co.uk/mia-2-giveaway

The Kissalo Box

Now, something with a little difference..................Sex, fun, frolics and well, simply a box with your favorite goodies in one place, delivered to you once a month or a simple single purchase.

I am always intrigued by these 'love boxes', I mean, what do you get the gal who has near enough, every sex toy that you could think of?  OK OK, I maybe elaborating on the truth but I'm pretty sure you get the gist?

So, when Kissalo.com asked if they could send me a box to review for them, I was more than happy to jump on the VW wagon and give it a good kicking into 2nd gear.

But first, let me delve into the mysteriousness of Kissalo.com.

Kissalo is a subscription service that made it's arrival onto the UK's sex toy scene in 2012.  Daniel Gillespie, who is a 24yr old head strong business man, jumped on the tidal wave that formed from the '50 shades of grey' hysteria.  And why not?  If you're going to form a company that supplies a sexy box of goodies each month, for a fee, then releasing your company during the mid-drift of the 'mummy porn' phenomena, would be the time to do it. 

You have 3 choices, you can either subscribe monthly, quarterly or purchase a one off box;

One off - £34.95   ( debited once )
Monthly - £24.95  ( debited monthly )
Quarterly - £29.95 ( debited every 3 months )

You have the secure payment option of Paypal, Visa, American Express or Mastercard.  On the payment page, just before you sign up your payment option, you are given the information that all transactions will show up as 'Portrait Consultancy Services Ltd' on your paypal or card statement.  To me, this shows a discreet business, which goes hand in hand with their prompt and discreet postage.  Your item will turn up in a sturdy brown box, address correctly and showing no sign that your package has come from an adult product company.

Kissalo.com seem to go that little bit further, to find out what your likes/dislikes and orientation is, to ensure that the sexy package sent to you is personalized 'Bespoke'.

Step 1 asks your sexual orientation, your sex, name & D.O.B, Step 2 delves into your senses, likes, dislikes (see below picture), Step 3 is your general billing/delivery information and where you get to pick what subscription that you would like, Step 4 is your login section and Step 5 is your payment processing section.

The Kissalo website is pretty easy to get around, the majority of what you need to know is on there. However, saying that, there is no actual Inventory list of products that are available, there is only a small photo on the main page.

Getting round to the actual box, I was excited to see what I would be getting.  Opening the box up, I was presented with the products wrapped in  white with red writing tissue packing paper, with Kissalo's own branded name spread across the tissue paper.  Taking out the items, was like Christmas cumming again (see what I did there?).  Anyway, here is a list of what is in the box;

1 x rectangular PVC leather looking spank paddle   (£14.99)
2 x Fizz Wiz popping candy packets - cola & strawberry flavor   (15p per packet)
1 x Super Slik 100ml water-based lubricant   ( £5.00 )
1 x Liquid Love cherry warming massage lotion - 118ml bottle  ( £8.99 )
1 x 1 skins condom  ( 0.48p )
1 x Jasmine & Lily Boujies candle   ( £12.99 )


I've added in the actual retail prices of these products, to give you a roundabout price.  So in total, this box comes in at £42.75p (GBP).  So, a singular box costing £24.95p is a good price, with the customer saving just under £20.00 GBP.

As a reviewer, I'm pretty much experienced with every field of the sex toy sector, so to me this box isn't screaming WOWZER! but for a person or couple coming into sex toys or those wanting a surprise, it has a good prospectus.

I do feel that there could be a better lubricant added i.e. Sliquid, Give lube, ID or even juicy lube.  The Liquid Love Massage Lotion is a delight, it smells of cherry when applied to the body and warms up slightly too.  But the best bit is when you gently blow over the applied body parts, the massage lotion warms up, driving you sense wild!

Imagine this; he's massaging the lotion over your pert bum cheeks, gently blows, you're getting comfortable and then WHAM, the paddle comes into play.  It's not as bad as it sounds but then, I do like a good spanking.

I was a little bewildered about the 1 condom, I mean if you're in for a night or weekend of fun, you will want a packet of condoms or more.  This would be where I'm promoting 'safe sex' but there are couples out there that have been together long enough, to trust each-other with bare back riding.  But I would have liked to have seen atleast 3 condoms in the box.  I was given a dots & ribs condom, maybe added 3 different types in (ribbed, sensitive and flavored) the box, it wouldn't look as small.

Boujies produce the most luscious of candles and I was given one in the scent of Jasmine & Lily.  This candle smells amazing, it's scent, whilst burning, fills my whole house up.  It's a sensual, relaxing and not over bearing scent, which goes well with the Kissalo box.  The candle has a 35hour burning time, which is damn right amazing, for the likes of me!

Now onto the most important part, the popping candy! OMG, where do I start?  I'm a fan of 'old school' candy shops and Fizz Wizz popping candy is the first thing I go for, so imagine my 30yr old face lighting up, when I saw that there were 2 packets included? I was over the moon!  You can snack on these or add them into your 'sexy time', maybe try adding the popping candy in your mouth, as you go down and lick his candy?  Go on, give it a go!

I found that dealing with Kissalo.com, they were very polite, prompt and informative.  Their P&P is fast and discreet and the subscription service is a pretty funky idea, especially if you are receiving different products on a monthly basis.  I will say though that Kissalo may excel quicker, if there was an list of products that are available, as to give the consumer an idea of what may be in their surprise package.  I would also like to see a different lubricant provided, don't get me wrong, I've reviewed the Super Slik lube and liked it but it just doesn't give me that 'umpth' and a couple more condoms made available.  Or maybe Kissalo could put place a section in their questionnaire whether or not you would like condoms in your parcel?

But over all, for a product price of £42.75p GBP and you'd only be paying a max of £30.00, you've got a pretty good deal.

Thank you to Kissalo.com for sending me one of their boxes to review.

RATING out of 4 lips

Kissalo.com - Home Page

Sexy Health Check Week - Guest Post from @FPApleasure

Desire and Pleasure the online sex toy website run by sexual health charity FPA, have today launched their ‘Sexy Health Check Week’ a campaign, which is aimed towards encouraging couples to make health checks an every day part of a their sex lives to help keep their partner healthy.

Sexual partners are in a great position to spot changes in their lover’s body no matter how big or small.

Issues could be minor such as hygiene, smells, weight changes, skin rashes allergies or more serious symptoms for testicular and breast cancer.

This new initiative from Desire and Pleasure encourages couples to get to know their partner’s bodies and explains what changes to look for.

The FPA's research shows that 23% of people say they have noticed minor changes on their own bodies, which has prompted them to go for a check-up with their doctor.

However, only 12% said that if they noticed any changes to their partner’s body, that they would tell them about it.

This was mainly due to embarrassment with over half (54%) citing this as the main reason for keeping quiet. Other reasons included not thinking it was important (27%) or not wanting to have an awkward conversation.

Natika H Halil, Director of Information for FPA says; “The aim of Sexy Health Check Week is to encourage couples to explore each other’s bodies and be open and honest with each other if they do notice anything.

There are so many campaigns out there for self-checks and self-diagnosis but nothing highlighting how knowing each others bodies as well as your own can be of benefit.  Sex offers the perfect opportunity to do this, when couples are most intimate.”

When you are enjoying some fun in the bedroom, here are key things to keep in mind;

1.     It’s better to be open and honest with your partner.

2.     Talking about these things can be tricky, so choose a time to talk after you’ve had sex or been intimate.  

3.     They may be concerned by what you say but they’ll be grateful you’ve told them about it

For more information in regards to the FPA's Sexual Health campaign, please click on the below link;

www.fpa.org.uk/campaignsandadvocacy/sexualhealthweek 

Desire and Pleasure is an online retailer operated FPA, the sexual health charity that champions the importance of good sexual health for everyone.  FPA educates, informs, supports and campaigns for people across the UK.  The Family Planning Association is a registered charity, number 250187

25% off purchases with @sextoysuk

Our friends over at @sextoysuk, have a 25% purchases offer.  Simply enter the code at the checkout 'mums the word' and voila you can enjoy your treats for less!

It's as easy as 1,2,3.  Just follow the below steps;

Visit www.sextoys.co.uk > select items > visit check out > enter code > pay > wait for Mr postie to arrive




My tip of the week:

Indulge yourself with the delicious Cake Cookie Dough Body Butter, once smothered all over your body, your partner will want to nibble away at you.  It leaves your skin feeling soft and scrumptious and even better, @Sextoysuk have this product on offer for £13.95 GBP , reduced from £20.00!

http://www.sextoys.co.uk/edible/cake-cookie-dough-body-butter

********New Rocks Off bullets********

Now these are the products that I have been waiting for!

Rocks Off have released 7 new RO 80mm bullet vibrators,  Each have their own personal colors and all have 7 vibration settings.  Their RRP is that of £17.99 but @Sextoysuk have them on offer for £14.95 GBP.

* Rocks Off RO 80mm Colour Me Orgasmic Bullet

* Rocks Off RO 80mm Gorgeous Glow Bullet

* Rocks Off RO 80mm Playful Pinto Bullet

* Rocks Off RO 80mm Flower Power Bullet

* Rocks Off RO 80mm Purple Python Bullet

* Rocks Off RO 80mm I Luv It Leopard Bullet

* Rocks Off RO 80mm Precious Golden Passion Bullet

SPRING SALE with @simplypleasure

Get up to 30% off with Simply Pleasure

Fancy getting some £££'s off your sex toy treats in March?  Well, you can have your cake and eat it with Simply Pleasure.  All you have to do is enter the following codes at the check out and 'Bob's ya uncle!', with a wave of my sex toy wand, your wish shall be my command.................

SPRING22	22% off £25 (valid 1st-31st march)
SPRING30	30% off £40 (valid 1st-31st march)
EASTERBONANZA30	30% off £30 (valid only 29th mar-1st April)

Visit > www.simplypleasure.com > place chosen products in basket > add one of the above discount codes > make payment > wait for your goodies to be delivered


And for those LELO fans out there, why not check out the LELO Super Sale that is currently on with Simply Pleasure!

Deal: Something for the weekend with @sextoysuk

Sextoys.co.uk are being absolute stars, this weekend, with another brilliant sex toy offer!

Spend over £30.00 and £50.00 with Sextoys.co.uk and get a free gift at the check out.  Below is an example of what is on offer;

All you have to do is visit Sextoys.co.uk (click here) and fill your basket up with goodies!

YESforLOV Ice-Fire Kisses

Right, so I've tried those plumping type liglosses that make you look like Amanda Holden post-op.  Not that I've ever got that plumped up look but was left with a burning sensation for a good 10 mins, only to look like I've put on, yes you've got it......Lip Gloss!

So when Donna over at Vibrator Kingdom sent me a nice little valentines package, I was happy to see that there was an addition of 2 YESforLOV lipsticks that could be used for teasing your partner.   Who was my willing victim, none other than Mr. Monkey!  Not that he had a choice, if I'm being honest but then again, he never really complains (to me, anyway).

The 2 lip sticks are opposites of each other; 1 x gives your lips a cooling effect (beige color) and 1 x gives your lips a heated effect (pink color)

They come in a white elegant looking cardboard box, that has the gold YESforLOV symbol on the front cover.

These 2 lipsticks are your average size that you would expect a lipstick to be.   As a bonus, they do actually keep your lips soft and protected, as YESforLOV claim.  They have shea butter and vitamin E extracts, which you can defiantly feel.  Peppermint is also added, to give that cool/hot effect.

Ice: the cooling effect took about 2 minutes to set in but was a pleasurable feeling.  When kissing, Mr. Monkey says that it was like kissing me outside in the cold but sensual, left him wanting more.  The lasting effect from the Ice lipstick left my lips soft and moisturized.

Ingredients: Olus (Veg Oil/Huile Veg), Hydrogenated veg oil, Ozokerite, Ethylhexyl, Methoxicinnamate, Menthyl, Lactate menthol, shea butter, butyldibenzoylmethane, aroma, CI 77891 (titanium dioxide), Ricinus Communis seed oil (castor), BHT, Tocopheryl Acetate, Methylparaben, Butylparaben, Ethylparaben, Propylparaben, Isobutylparaben.
 
Fire: the warming effect, unlike the Ice kisses, took effect as soon as the lipstick met my lips.  There was a very quick warming cinnamon type sensation.  Kissing Mr. Monkey, he wasn't so keen with this warming lipstick, as it left his lips tingling, a sensation that he didn't welcome on his lips.  However, this lipstick didn't leave my lips feeling as fresh as the ice kisses did but did leave them just as soft.

Ingredients:  Olus (Veg Oil/Huile Veg), Hydrogenated veg oil, Ozokerite, Ethylhexyl, Methoxicinnamate, Butyrospermum ParkII (shea butter), butyldibenzoylmethane, Avodenzone, aroma/Flavor, Vanillyl Butyl Ether, BHT, Tocopheryl Acetate,  CI 77491 CI 77492 CI 77499 (titanium dioxide), Ricinus Communis seed oil (castor), Iron Oxcides,  Methylparaben, Butylparaben, Ethylparaben, Propylparaben, Isobutylparaben.

Using this lipstick as a sensual tool, you would be best to place the lipstick on and get the motor going asap, as the effect doesn't really last that long for your partner.  We did find that kissing the neck, once you are both aroused, the lipstick effects were felt a lot more, a bit like trailing the tip of an ice cube along the neck.  BUT the best effect is leaving a trail of kisses and then blowing gently across the trailed skin.  The cooling.heating sensation only lasts a few seconds but enough to kick your nerves into over drive!

Mr. Monkey prefers the ice-kisses on the lips and the fire-kisses on his skin.

I felt I was missing out all the fun, so the roles were reversed but Mr. Monkey out rightly refused to put any lipstick on his manly lips, so he drew lines down my neck and I have to say, it's an amazing feeling when his cool breath, swept over my tingling skin!

The YESforLOV Ice-Fire Kisses lipstick set retails for an average of £25.99 GBP's but you can purchase this set over on Vibrator Kingdom for £19.99!  Do I agree with this RRP?  Simple, it has to be a yes!  Not only do you get 2 lipsticks that moisturize your luscious lips but you get 2 sensual play toys too.

I would prefer that these lipsticks had a longer lasting effect but that is my only downside to the product.

Vibrator Kingdom is a small and reliable online retailer,not only are they efficient with their customer service and postage times, they also offer a personal packaging and gift service, which is free.  I have always been in awe of VK's fast and discreet postal service, Donna does go that extra mile with wrapping up your purchases.

Wear the YESforLOV's Ice-Fire Kisses as a natural lip tint throughout the day and let them bring out your inner goddess at night!

RATING out of 4 lips

YESforLOV - Product Page

WINNER - Sex Toy Bundle Give-away

Sex Toy Bundle Competition Announcement

It's finally here!  The day that I make the big announcement of who has won this fantastic bundle of sex toys, kindly donated from Givelube, Bondara and myself.

CONGRATULATIONS TO......................................................

Silverdrop

Thank you to everyone that entered and helped to promote this competition, it wouldn't have got off the ground, if it wasn't for you guys 'n' dolls!

Don't worry folks because I have another fabulous competition coming up, so keep visiting my blog/facebook/twitter for another competition announcement within the next month :)





Disclaimer: The winner was picked at random by https://www.rafflecopter.com